Often, the value of what we have is not realised until it is taken away: our health, job, a close relationship. We assume that they will be with us for the foreseeable future. So, it should not surprise us that bereavement (of whatever kind) brings the guilt of wasted opportunity. Redundancy is no holiday, and even prolonged illness makes us want to get back to work. It would do us no harm to consider the value of our spouse, children, health and home - the very discipline of that appreciation could start to transform our relationships and lifestyle. But here, Jesus is referring to mat