On Paul's way to Jerusalem, he stopped in Caesarea to stay at the home of Philip the evangelist (Acts 21:8), who had been appointed to help the apostles' ministry by relieving them of relief and welfare work (Acts 6:5-6).  While Paul was staying there, Agabus had graphically demonstrated that Paul would be taken captive through the religious leaders' anger and handed over to the Gentile judicial system (Acts 21:10-11).

The believers in that region, who had come to meet Paul and others in the apostolic team [Luke had joined the group by then, hence "we and the people …" and details of others who were there], all pleaded with Paul not to go to Jerusalem.  They were naturally protective of Paul: they did not want to lose their leader and friend, nor did they want the churches to be deprived of such an anointed minister.  Paul had experienced the same reaction by the Ephesian elders in Miletus (Acts 20:36-38), and in Tyre (Acts 21:4-5).  But this third time, the discouraging pleading earned a rebuke.

It appears the Christians in Caesarea, along with Luke and others in Paul’s team, had still not fully grasped that suffering for the Name of Jesus was a natural part of discipleship (Philippians 1:29).  Neither did they understand that the Lord was in command of Paul's life, where he went and what he should do.  The information about the apostle's destiny had been shared with the believers so that they could understand, encourage and pray for Paul:  it was not for them to presume that they knew better than the Lord and deflect His servant from his calling.  Paul's rebuke brought them to their senses, and they eventually accepted that the Lord's will must be done.

Fellowship is a blessing provided it is Spirit-directed fellowship in Christ.  But when the voices and emotions within our fellowship are louder than the will of God, something is wrong.  All sorts of reasons may lie behind their apparent warm-hearted kindness and advice: past painful experiences, injustice or fear of losing another friend.  But there comes a time when they will only see God's point of view through rebuke.  It is hard enough to do God's will in difficult circumstances at home, with friends, in the community or at church - without self-appointed patrons telling you that you should not do it.  They may say that it is too big a burden to bear, or that you should stay where you are even though the Lord has confirmed His will for you to move forward.  It is the Lord's command which must prevail.  Be wise in choosing which voice you accept.  When those who seem to ooze love discourage you from doing God's will, is that really love?  The key is to be clear about your fellowship with Christ and obedience to His commands.